Friendsgiving: The Other Thanksgiving That Might Be Even Better

Originally aired on 11/07/21 for WGN Radio 720.

You’ve probably heard the word Friendsgiving floating around the last few years. Maybe you’ve even been to one. But if you haven’t jumped on this genius holiday hack yet, now’s the time.

Friendsgiving is the unofficial, emotionally superior cousin of Thanksgiving. It’s the meal you have with your chosen family—friends, neighbors, coworkers—anyone you actually want to sit next to. No passive-aggressive family banter, no interrogations about your life choices, and absolutely no matching sweater photos unless you want to.

Why Friendsgiving Is Having a Moment

💬 It includes everyone.
Work, travel, family drama—there are a million reasons people can’t make it home for Thanksgiving. Friendsgiving gives you a seat at a table you want to be at.

💆♀️ It’s pressure-free.
No traditions you didn’t sign up for. No fancy china. No Aunt Linda asking if you’ve tried Botox.

❤️ It celebrates the family you choose.
Not everyone’s blood relatives are their people. Friendsgiving is about showing up for the ones who get you.

🕰️ It’s flexible.
Brunch? Yes. Midnight dessert potluck? Also yes. It’s not about the calendar—it’s about connection.

🍗 It’s a test kitchen for the real day.
Trying out a new stuffing recipe? Great. If it flops, your friends will still love you. (And probably eat it anyway.)

🙏 It’s gratitude without the guilt.
 No obligations, no expectations. Just intention, kindness, and a side of mashed potatoes.

✅ Savvy Dos

• Make it potluck-style. Host handles the main dish, guests bring the rest. Low effort, high reward.
  

• Assign dishes. So you don’t end up with seven mac-and-cheeses and no cranberry sauce.
  

• Pick a theme. “Sidesgiving,” “Tiny Thanksgiving,” or “Global Gravy Fest.” Go wild.
  

• Loosely plan seating. No place cards, just make sure everyone has a seat and someone to laugh with.
  

• Do a gratitude moment. Keep it simple. One small thing you’re thankful for goes a long way.
  

❌ Savvy Don’ts

• Don’t stress. People came for connection, not your Pinterest-perfect tablescape.
  

• Don’t over-invite. Keep it cozy and manageable.
  

• Don’t forget the music. Jazz, acoustic, or your favorite mellow playlist = instant vibe.
  

• Don’t let one person do everything. Everyone brings something. Even if it’s just ice or vibes.
  

Friendsgiving is a reminder that holidays aren’t about performance. They’re about presence. So this year, carve out space (and turkey) for the people who fill your cup. Make it intentional. Make it fun. Make it yours.

🍽️ Need a showstopper dish? Check out the Cuban Mojo Turkey or my famous Corn Casserole—easy, flavorful, and guaranteed to impress your chosen family.